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Educator: Culture of Underage Drinking Can Change

Volunteers, Schools, Town look to further step up efforts following recent incidents.

 

To many, underage drinking is simply something kids will do and the best hope is to keep them from getting behind the wheel and perhps reach a few.

But Maria Coutant Skinner, Canton resident and Parent Education Coordinator for The McCall Foundation, a prevention and treatment agency, sees it differently. Attitudes can change, she said, using smoking and seat-belt use as examples. Just a generation ago, smoking was the norm and seat belt buckles were generally semi-permanently wedged into rear seats. Now, due to education, law enforcement and media campaigns, the number of smokers is dramatically reduced and most wear seat belts, she said. 

“Very quickly culture changed,” she said.

Skinner was one of nearly 20 people who gathered at a Substance Abuse Council/Community of Concern meeting Monday night to discuss ways to further combat underage drinking. At the table were school and town officials, volunteers, non-profit leaders and others. 

The meeting had already been planned and the schools and others have offered programs but three separate underage drinking incidents a few weekends ago sparked further action and discussion. While many feel that it is not the norm in town, they did say further action is needed. 

Recent “Courageous Parenting” sessions with the McCall Foundation were well received and school officials are looking to quickly sponsor another educational event for parents.

The issue is so important because research shows that alcohol is so detrimental for teens due to its effect on the developing brain and increased chances of addiction, Skinner and others said.

And cultural pressures were one aspect discussed. Pat Maloy, president of Canton High School’s Virtual PTO, said she and other parents, as well as teachers, were aware of plans for one of the well-discussed incidents, a freshmen party. Maloy said she and others should have called someone but sometimes don’t know who to call or fear that they will receive pressure from their own teens or other parents. And while some of those who heard about it may not have realized alcohol would be involved a call may have prevented the incident, she said.

“That would at least initiate some action,” Maloy said.

Police Chief Christopher Arciero reiterated that the routine dispatch number — 860-693-0221 is confidential and can be completely anonymous and officers can always check into a reported incident.  

Dr. Jordan Grossman, assistant superintendent for Canton schools, said the district will also educate teachers on the issue.

Substance Abuse Council Chairwoman Sue Saidel said it’s another area where parents can be educated as well — to make that call to the parents of the home where a party is going to be held to make sure they are going to be home and that it is on the up and up. 

Kevin J. Hanlon, principal at Canton Intermediate School, also discussed a program in Farmington that works with incoming ninth-graders. The program,   "Farmington Focus," looks to educate kids on drinking survey statistics. Often freshmen believe that alcohol use is more prevalent than it is, making them more likely to feel pressured into drinking, he said. 

Other initiatives and services were also discussed.

Michael Shelby, information officer for a local Alcoholics Anonymous region, told officials about a program the organization offers in which young people ages 17 to 27, who have been sober for at least a year, come talk to the students about personal struggles.

"The kids can relate to personal stories," he said. 

Thomas J. Steen, executive director of Capital Area Substance Abuse Council, told the group about some ideas and that the organization did have some program funds available.

Thomas Gotaski, who runs a cadet program for the town of Canton Volunteer Fire and EMS Department, said it is another alternative that is great for the kids. The program not only teaches valuable skills and a culture of respect, but also gives kids a place to go, away from potential pressures. And sometimes, they see firsthand the effects of poor decisions.

"It sets in real quick," Gotaski said.

Related Topics: Underage Drinking

Lisa Frederiksen

11:23 am on Tuesday, February 14, 2012

This is an issue in so many communities. One approach that I am having success with in the work I do with children, teens and parents is raising awareness about the 21st century brain and addiction-related science to help all concerned better understand why the teen brain is not the same as that of an adult's and therefore why the teen brain is affected differently by drinking. This article, “How Teens Become Alcoholics Before Age 21,” http://tiny.cc/pyesf, helps to explain this relatively new research and why alcohol is harmful to the teen brain in a way it is not necessarily harmful to the adult brain. Sometimes, just talking about this subject from this approach – the science of brain development – can help

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Cathy

10:05 am on Wednesday, February 15, 2012

It is sad to read this article and find that parents would allow their children to attend or host a "party" which included alcohol. These are 13 - 15 year old children...why are they allowed to have these "parties"? As a parent of a teen hosting the party, wouldn't you check on your child and their guests from time to time? I feel that the parents need to be more proactive in these instances...make yourself aware of what is going on in YOUR home!! You are also responsible for those children. What is it going to take for people to wake up? Does it always have to result in death for parents to open their eyes? Drinking alcohol is not a right of passage for 13 - 15 year old children. That is a poor excuse for bad behavior and horrible choices. Wake up parents before your child becomes a statistic!

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MaryAnn Remillard

2:25 pm on Wednesday, February 15, 2012

I agree with Cathy. There is too much freedom at a young age and not enough parental supervision. Parents want to be friends to their children and their children's friends. Where are they getting this alcohol from? Someone has access to it and it travels from one house to the other. These meetings are not always successful because it is then expected for town officials and committees to resolve the problem. Remember the Dare program and how that was to discourage kids from trying drugs. Did it? No it did not. It made some of them try it at a younger age. It all starts at home and the lack of discipline there. Parents have to come up to the plate and do what they should be doing. That means parents have to ease up on a busy schedule and put your childrens welfare first. That is why we are blessed with children..

Concerned

2:17 pm on Wednesday, February 15, 2012

Let's not forget the educators who knew the party was planned and didn't BOTHER to notify the autorities or the parents. How about leading by example! Your child has enough friends within the classroom, how about giving guidance and being the parent!

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Cathy

4:08 pm on Wednesday, February 15, 2012

@Concerned...while it is true anyone that is aware of such a "party" being held should come forward and address it with parents and/or authorities...it is ultimately the owner of the home to which said "party" is taking place that remains responsible for these minor children! Where are they when all this "partying is occurring? A 13 - 15 yr old child should never have to be hospitalized because of excessive drinking! That is just not acceptable!! Don't know whom your last remark is aimed at?! I highly doubt you know me since I currently do not have children within the school system. If you want to make a brash comment like that...why not use your real name?

Concerned

4:53 pm on Wednesday, February 15, 2012

Cathy, My intended comments were to be directed to the article and Ms Maloy's comment. My views on this issue mirror yours.

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Cathy

7:52 pm on Wednesday, February 15, 2012

Concerned...Thanks for clarifying! It is a very touchy subject and one that I cannot even understand having to take place...especially at this young age! It is my understanding that this "party" was for the "popular freshman"...guess that is when you should count your blessings if your child is not labeled as such!

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